You can find most fist fuckers in the fetish circuit. They are also easy to recognize here by the color red. Bright red is the universal color for fist fucking–most commonly by a red handkerchief. Worn in the left pants pocket, a red handkerchief means that you’re a top; in the right pants pocket you’re a bottom. Versatile fist fuckers wear either two handkerchiefs, or a handkerchief around the neck. More about hanky codes below.

The use of handkerchiefs has really almost died out. You’ll very likely find color codes now on rubber and leather clothing. It sometimes happens that someone is wearing a color simply because he finds it appealing. He doesn’t realize that if you have a yellow stripe on your pants, it means that you’re into piss sex.

For fisters there are all sorts of other telltale signs, such as the visible wearing of gloves, and bottle of J-Lube or a tub of Crisco (see further in this story about lubricants). A rubber shirt leaves nothing to the imagination.

All this doesn’t mean that fist fuckers are only to be found in the leather and SM scene. It’s only difficult to recognize other fisters in the “regular” world. For that reason, in the baths I always wear a small cord around my neck. An insider catches what the significance is!

A real fist fucking scene does not exist in the Netherlands. There are certainly a couple of organized fist fucking parties. Everything about it is on the “fist and sex in Holland” page or look at the calendar. You can also find fist fucking enthusiasts online. The most popular fist fucking sites are on the links page.

In closing, I will also mention the color Bordeaux red. This color is in the hanky code for double fisiting. That clarifies why you come across this color regularly on this website…

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