An important remark for beginning tops and bottoms but also for experienced tops!
FF is not SM! Whenever a beginning bottom tells you that your hand has to come out, that has to happen right away! Unfortunately, I hear a little too often from beginning bottoms that a top was not listening. This gives the bottom severe cramping that can be painful for a long time! So, it doesn’t matter how dominant and/or sadistic you are, park it already and put yourself completely at the service of the bottom. Whenever you live up to the trust he has in you, you’ll see that you can go further. And at a certain moment (in most cases after months of practicing!!) you can take control back into your own hands.
Naturally, there’s a task for the beginning bottom as well. Make clear how much (or how little) experience you have and that the top better strictly follow your instructions. Look out for tops who have little experience. These can really go too fast and leave you with trauma that will literally trouble you for years!
If you still have questions about this, don’t hesitate to be make contact.
Further reading: de fistfucking scene
This should be advertised on a billboard or something! Thank you! I get way too many guys wanting to dominate them and fist them. And then they turn out to have no fisting experience to speak of! And they never listen when I tell them to train for fisting first before you incorporate it in a bdsm scene.