Frequently asked fistfuck questions (FAffQ)
- 1 Frequently asked fistfuck questions (FAffQ)
- 1.1 I am new to fisting. Can I visit a fistfuck party?
- 1.2 Does it hurt to be fisted?
- 1.3 How long does it last until a newbie can get fisted?
- 1.4 What is the best way to open my anus so I can take a fist?
- 1.5 Don’t you have problems with your ass after fisting?
- 1.6 I am new to fisting. Would you please fist me?
- 1.7 I am an experienced fister and would like to meet you?
- 1.8 …but I don’t like fistfuck parties or sex parties in general…
- 1.9 What are the best websites to find fisters?
These questions are asked me frequently:
I am new to fisting. Can I visit a fistfuck party?
Yes! You are most welcome. It is always nice to see new guys at a fist party. You don’t have to participate. If you come for the first time, just look at everything that is going on. See the way fisters communicate during play. You’ll see that we are just like normal men 😉
Does it hurt to be fisted?
No. It does not hurt at all. More information for guys who are completely new to fistfucking is available on the page alles over fisten (only in Dutch right now, I am working on a translation in all about fisting).
How long does it last until a newbie can get fisted?
That is completely different from one person to an other. Some guys can take a fist in their first attempt. Others will never be able to take a fist… An experienced fister will be able to tell you if you have talent to get fisted.
Two things have to happen to be able to take a fist. First of all, the muscle of your anus has to be stretched. (See next question). Second your body needs to have enough “free space” after the anus. I have met a few guys that really can’t take any large object in there.
What is the best way to open my anus so I can take a fist?
Your anus is a muscle. Like other muscles in your body, you can do exercises to make it larger. The most common way to stretch the anus is by inserting dildos or butt plugs. But this is always in the direction your body is not used to.
My advise it to use an inflatable butt plug. (For sale at any gay sex shop). Insert it with a lot of (water based) lube. When it is completely inserted, pump it slightly. Now pull it out, like when you poop. This way you stretch the anus in the natural direction.
Just repeat this until your anus tells you it needs a rest. Don’t overstretch it. Just play with your ass every time you feel horny and you will be surprised how quickly you will be able to inflate the plug bigger and bigger.
It is also a great feeling to leave the plug in your ass for a longer time.
Don’t you have problems with your ass after fisting?
After a fist session, the ass does not always close immediately. But after a little while, it closes just like any other ass. The anus is a muscle. You train to stretch and relax it. When it is in resting position, it is as closed as any other ass. By training, fisters know how to relax the muscle and this makes it easier to put a dildo or fist into it.
I am new to fisting. Would you please fist me?
I receive this question quite often. It is nice that so many men trust me. For a date with a novice, I only invite guys to whom I feel an attraction. Generally speaking, I am attracted to slim and smooth guys from age 25 – 35.
Look at the About me page to find out more and if you think we are a match then send an e-mail with a clear face and body pic(s).
I am an experienced fister and would like to meet you?
I prefer to meet experienced fisters during a fist party. There are several fist parties in Amsterdam each month. What I like about meeting at a public party is that if it turns out we don’t make a good match, it is easier for you and me to say so. Then we are free to look around and find a more workable connection and still have some fun. A more practical solution and no one is left with hurt feelings.
…but I don’t like fistfuck parties or sex parties in general…
What are the best websites to find fisters?
The best (free) dating site for gays in Europe is www.planetromeo.com. They offer much more value for no money compared to gaydar, gay.nl, adam4adam, asspig and all those other sites.
A good second option is www.recon.com. What I like about this website is that the conversation history is not deleted automatically.
For a review of these and other dating sites, go to the links page.